The Harry and Sam Dialogues

Harry and Sam are old friends who like to pass the time posing outlandish questions to one another ...

"If ya' had the choice would ya' rather love a woman whose top half was a fish and whose bottom half was a woman or a woman whose top half was a woman and whose bottom half was a fish?"

The questions are off the wall, but they slowly reveal the two men's characters, and allow them to take stock of each other while avoiding mundane, but important, life matters

These life matters are woven into their interchanges-hints about their lives apart from one another

Harry and his wife, Marge, are having troubles

In the first scene, Harry mentions he's sleeping on the couch; in the next, he is sleeping in his car; later he asks Sam if he can stay at his house; and after that, he jokes that he is sleeping in another state

Sam is wrapped up in New Age books, and tries to dispense their philosophy to enhance the dialogues

But when Harry finds one of Sam's books in Marge's possession, he realizes Sam is having an affair with Marge

Sam apologizes and tries to explain, but the event drives them apart and they do not speak for a time

The two are incomplete without each other however, and the incident forces Harry to reconsider his chosen form of communication (or lack thereof) and to work on his marriage and salvage it

In the final scene, Harry and Sam meet by chance in their favorite bar and reconcile, with Harry using an analogy of dunking Ding-Dong's, in what you thought was milk but which turns out to be orange juice, to say that you don't throw away years of friendship or marriage because of one mistake, which is as much his fault as theirs